Just a month before Memorial Day 1989, at a time U.S. soldiers were not often in harms way, I received the news that my Special Forces instructor, COL Nick Rowe, had been killed in a vehicle ambush in the Phillipines while serving as a U.S. military advisor. It made Memorial Day that year a different event because Nick Rowe was the first soldier I had known personally to be killed while serving our country. Years earlier, as a Boy Scout, I had been part of an honor guard for soldiers killed in Vietnam. However, as sad as the occasions, I had not known the soldiers personally. Nick Rowe was real to me. I had last met with him just prior to his deployment to the Phillipines. Only four years later, in 1993, MSG Gary Gordon was killed in Somalia trying to rescue Berlin, N.H. native CW4 Michael Durant. Gary had been in my Special Forces unit. Memorial Day since always includes memories of these soldiers whose lives were taken while they served in our armed forces.
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